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HAVING AN ANNOYING PARTNER? HERE IS HOW YOU CAN DEAL WITH THEM.

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HAVING AN ANNOYING PARTNER? HERE IS HOW YOU CAN DEAL WITH THEM.

In every relationship of the couple always there are good times, of happiness and bad moments. The differences in a relationship are the most healthy and normal, but the important thing is to know how to negotiate in those moments without either imposing their point of view or desire.

However, for many men, it is a little difficult to understand their partner sometimes. Well, at the beginning, it is hard work to understand if they are angry and the cause of this anger, which in the end, becomes a real problem.

Therefore, we give you some tips to learn how to recognize and react when your partner is annoyed with you, to have a better relationship:

  1. If you know her well and you know she’s upset, do not ask her: Are you angry? Surely the look you will receive will be unpleasant. Try to observe her for a few moments and try to think about the cause of her discomfort. You’ve probably done something that would upset her in such a way.
  2. Ask her what’s bothering you, if you really do not have any idea what’s wrong with her or something that you’ve done has made her angry. However, if she does not want to tell you, do not press her too hard.
  3. If you know that she is annoyed with you, whether or not you intended to provoke her, an apology, when you use the appropriate words, means a lot. Maybe a “sorry” is the best beginning. 
  4. Be patient. If she starts to cry, raise her voice or react in a negative way, be calm. Do not react, the same that will only make things worse.
  5. Give her time to relieve her and to calm down. In this way, they will be able to talk later, but no longer angry, so they have an opportunity to clarify things.
  6. Do not pass yourself by apologizing. Stop telling her that you feel it all the time since that will make her angrier with you than she already is.
  7. Hugs work for just about anyone and in any situation. Be firm but gentle. The point of embracing her is for her to feel secure and protected.

To solve the conflict, start telling her how much you love her, that you feel what happened and that you never wanted to hurt her. This may be the best way for them to understand that you do not always understand their reactions and that they will begin to solve them.

To handle differences and have a healthy relationship, it is important to put aside the feelings of anger and the demands of both parties.

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